Black Friday Favourites

Hola! It's been a long time, but I am back again. I can't believe I haven't posted since August! Uni has just taken over my life at the moment, I have learnt that the final year of a Fashion degree definitely is hard! My posts have been and probably will be a bit sporadic for the next few months until I graduate, so bare with! I'm so happy to have taken the time out to start blogging again though! I have missed it so darn much, it's unreal! But yeah, time to stop all the idle chatter and get into the topic of my next post...!!

Black Friday is back again people, meaning one thing... It's time to start shopping! I have been trawling the Interwebs for the best deals you can take advantage of today and save a whole lot of dolla (which is good for everyone right?!) Here are some items that caught my eye from brands such as Boohoo, Topshop and Nasty Gal. Happy spending! 

Boohoo - 50% Everything on Site!

ASOS - 20% off Everything with the code: GOGOGO

Nasty Gal - 30% off Black Styles

Topshop - Up to 50% Off

How to Be Confident and Not Compare Yourself to Others

It does take a long time to become confident within yourself - whether that be what you look like naked or if you are beautiful enough within the current society of photoshopped models and celebrities. I have literally just gotten comfortable with it myself. It is so hard to stop thinking things like 'I wish I had Kylie Jenner's lips' or 'I would love to have Taylor Swift's lengthy pins'. Everyone has body parts that they are not happy with, you aren't the minority! I struggled for years with my stomach, convinced that it wasn't flat enough and I looked fat despite eating any more than anyone else! A few years later, I am comfortable with the idea of wearing crop tops and showing my belly button! You will feel the same eventually, trust me! 

But you don't need a random celebrity's features to be beautiful in your own right. Instead, divert your thoughts. Maybe think more about more curvy celebrities that rock their shape such as Beyonce or Demi Lovato.  

Everyone is also different within the style choices they make on a daily basis. It is up to you what you choose to wear, not anyone else. If someone else doesn't like what you wear, they can sod off. After all, its your style, not theirs. If you want to change up the style of look you express every so often, that is okay too! It has definitely took me a while to find my own personal style, but now that I have I feel better than ever. I have finally found myself, and you can too!

You have got to remember that beauty is not what defines you anyway - it is more to do with your personal achievements and goals that are most important in your life, not how you look or what other people do. It is also difficult though to not compare yourself to others in a similar situation to you in life and look how much more intelligent they are or if they can do certain things better... All of that doesn't matter. It's what YOU do that counts most of all, just think about that.

Everyone isn't perfect. Everyone has flaws, whether that be physically or personality wise. So whenever you start to compare yourself to one of your friends or a classmate, think about however perfect they may seem to you on the outside - they have insecurities and fears just like you. Yes, they may be able to complete a task better than you can but you have strengths in other areas. You deserve your place on a course just as much as they do. That person may seem more outgoing and confident than you, but you can improve this if you just believe in yourself. You won't be the exact same as anyone else in this world, and that is totally fine. You wouldn't want to be!

At the end of the day, EVERYONE is BEAUTIFUL. Don't forget that. 

I x


5 Tips to Conquer Depressive Thoughts

At some point in their lives, everyone goes through a period where they are not feeling themselves due to stress, work or even just life in general. It definitely takes its toll on us all sometimes. Recently, I have been going through a period where I have felt this way. I have felt bored, hopeless, useless and even fed up. I have gone through a time where I have not been motivated to do anything somedays and felt uninspired in terms of creative ideas with my uni work and this blog. Sometimes you need advice in order to pick yourself up again and get through this - and it works, honestly! I got inspired to write this post as I wished I got this advice sooner and you can live life to the fullest again!

1. Think Positively. 
I know it sounds a bit cliche, but honestly, it works. Think of all the things in your life that you are thankful for, whether that be a supportive family, good friends or that you have aced that last exam! Whatever it is, take a moment to really be grateful for what you have. 

2. Talk About Your Feelings.
I know it may seem like a hard thing to do - I mean the last thing you want to do is express to your best friend about how depressed you are and feel sorry for yourself. They will give you advice on how to amend the situation and how to feel better. I know it seems scary, but after all they are the people closest to you so will therefore understand. They have probably been in a similar situation as well but  have felt too embarrassed to mention it - so talk!

3. Get Outside. 
This is one thing that really helps your general wellbeing. It doesn't have to be a 5 mile trek! Only a small walk of 20 minutes in the fresh air will really help to boost your morale and you will also be getting fit in the process! Spending days indoors staring at a screen will not help you mentally. 

4. Eat a Healthier Diet. 
Swap that Dominos order for a salad filled with lots of nutrients and vitamins and honestly you will feel the benefits right away. You won't get as drowsy early on in the evening and you will have more energy as a result. It doesn't mean you have to do this everyday, just gradually introduce healthier foods into your diet and you will feel a lot better in yourself. 

5. Plan a Day Out with Your Best Friend. 
This is an obvious one, but going out and socialising really does boost your mood and make you happier. It's easy to want to sit in all day with Netflix but it is good to see people sometimes and not be a total recluse! 

Hopefully this will help you to gain a sense of wellbeing again and realise you are BEAUTIFUL! You can do this!

I x